Open Letter: Thank you

To you,… Right now, I know you’re going on quite a drive right now. I hope to god you get there safely, but you make this trip enough for me to feel like I don’t have blow up your phone.  I am really happy that this weekend you are doing this for yourself. Last night […]

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Online dating fucked my love life.

It has been a solid minute since I wrote on this blog. One of the best things about having this hobby is the fact that any moment in my life I can open up about something raw and personal about myself. Lately, I have been caught up in trying to find the one guy I […]

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Tinder Date: Casual Sex and Our Generation

“For women, the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.” ― Isabel Allende, Of Love and Shadows “I think women are sexy when they got some clothes on. And if later they take them off then you’ve triumphed. Somebody once said it’s […]

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Tinder Date: Does he like me?

It’s been a long day. You’re sitting on your bed with probably not the best foods out there, or not. You’re relaxing and strolling through your phone. You’re looking at all those social media platforms and even those texts you’ve had all day. But then, you noticed the cute guy you met from Tinder hasn’t […]

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Babe, fuck you.

“Nothing’s that bad If it feels good So you come back Like I knew you would And we’re both wild And the night’s young And you’re my drug” Part of me knew that you were a drug to me. I knew that loving you came with as many negatives as the amount of breaths I take […]

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To 18 Year Old Me

Hey girlie, You’re talking to 21 year old  version of yourself. Don’t be scared. Don’t run away from this. I have a little insight about what life has for you. I am sure you are really busy with those college applications, do that college board test. You’ll come up with most out of nowhere colleges […]

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I am happy you’re happy.

At the end of the day, a break up sucks. You cry a little that things aren’t happening the way you want it. You may even drag yourself into more heartbreak by holding onto something that isn’t there. Even more, you have the most annoying clouded view of the relationship until you move on. From […]

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He shouldn’t even matter.

To the brokenhearted girls like me, I know you probably spent many nights and days thinking about him. You probably even wasted all your time on the emotions you feel because of what he did to you. Even more, you probably sat there thinking that he was the one. Let me tell you this. He […]

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The Main Reason I hate Porn

For me, I was raised in a more American culture than Asian culture home. I definitely got the Asian-ness that are stereotypical and quite frank major punch lines to jokes. The thing I learned the most over the years is that Asian women typically are associated with one horrible stigma. Whenever I’m single and talking […]

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Yesterday’s(05-13-16) Check-In

Today Friday, May 13, 2016 I definitely feel like today is one of those days where I want to put everything back together. It seems like summer has started for everyone else but me. I am currently sitting in a house that is not my parents but my adopted Roanoke family. I housesit their home […]

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