His Eyes

I don’t know what I am feeling right now. When I listen to a song like Latch by Sam Smith, I can just imagine you here. The way you smile at me whenever I say anything dark and slightly funny The way you touch my hands while we are watching a movie The way in […]

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Open Letter: Thank you

To you,… Right now, I know you’re going on quite a drive right now. I hope to god you get there safely, but you make this trip enough for me to feel like I don’t have blow up your phone.  I am really happy that this weekend you are doing this for yourself. Last night […]

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Online dating fucked my love life.

It has been a solid minute since I wrote on this blog. One of the best things about having this hobby is the fact that any moment in my life I can open up about something raw and personal about myself. Lately, I have been caught up in trying to find the one guy I […]

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Why Jake and Lainey from Sleeping With Other People is relationship goals?

If you like movies like Friends with Benefits and No Strings Attached, Sleeping with Other People should be added to your list. Sleeping with Other People is about a guy and a girl who went to Columbia together. They lost their virginity to each other. Years later, the guy is a compulsive cheater, and while the girl is […]

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Tinder Date: Casual Sex and Our Generation

“For women, the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.” ― Isabel Allende, Of Love and Shadows “I think women are sexy when they got some clothes on. And if later they take them off then you’ve triumphed. Somebody once said it’s […]

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Babe, fuck you.

“Nothing’s that bad If it feels good So you come back Like I knew you would And we’re both wild And the night’s young And you’re my drug” Part of me knew that you were a drug to me. I knew that loving you came with as many negatives as the amount of breaths I take […]

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Cuddling: The Cure for a Heartbreak

Have you ever just put yourself in a situation where you just got intimate with someone you aren’t really sure about? Now, I don’t mean about directly sex and all things sexual. I think one of the best things I ever done for myself to get over my ex was to get emotional (in a […]

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The Main Reason I hate Porn

For me, I was raised in a more American culture than Asian culture home. I definitely got the Asian-ness that are stereotypical and quite frank major punch lines to jokes. The thing I learned the most over the years is that Asian women typically are associated with one horrible stigma. Whenever I’m single and talking […]

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Sex: Sexting

Gosh, I could go on and on about the double standards of today’s hookup culture. Today, I think that’s something that everyone knows about. I would like to talk about my personal experience with sexting. I like sexting, and I think it something great that people who are attracted to each other do. I also […]

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Sex: I’m grateful for losing my virginity

DISCLAIMER: This article will contain a very liberal subject. If you’re under the age of 18, I do not advise you to read it. I will be talking about a topic that could be sensitive and against some moral standards.  I lost my virginity when I about 17, like 23 days away, to my ex-boyfriend. […]

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